{"id":3549,"date":"2009-12-13T16:02:43","date_gmt":"2009-12-13T21:02:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.daysongreflections.com\/?p=3549"},"modified":"2009-12-12T16:05:33","modified_gmt":"2009-12-12T21:05:33","slug":"12-pearls-of-christmas-god-with-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.daysongreflections.com\/?p=3549","title":{"rendered":"12 Pearls of Christmas: God With Us"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_YmmI-nL8jWc\/SyE1n0-A0LI\/AAAAAAAAFBU\/-RRFOyMCqrk\/s1600\/7.jpg\" onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 125px;\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_YmmI-nL8jWc\/SyE1n0-A0LI\/AAAAAAAAFBU\/-RRFOyMCqrk\/s1600\/7.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">LISTENING FOR CHRISTMAS<\/span> by Deb Kalmbach<\/p>\n<p>I used to be the queen of over-commitment, and December brought out the worst in this malady. It was as if I were poised at an imaginary starting line, and when I flipped the calendar page, I was off and running&#8211;the December dash!<\/p>\n<p>You could hardly see any white space on my daily planner it was so jammed with events. Kids&#8217; Christmas programs, church programs, and endless lists of things-to-do obscured my calendar and my vision to see what really mattered. Each day when we hung another ornament on our Advent tree, I felt my chest tighten, and my breathing get shallower. Only single-digit shopping days left&#8230;Panic mode was about to set in.<\/p>\n<p>Of course I was singing in the Christmas choir. I love music, and the heavenly Christmas anthems we sang. The neighborhood cookie exchange was an annual tradition. Forget about the old standards, chocolate chip or peanut butter cookies. Let&#8217;s talk about jam-filled tea cookies, chocolate-dipped peanut butter balls, or iced sugar cookies with colored sprinkles. My kitchen looked like a Martha Stewart test kitchen gone awry.<\/p>\n<p>My head spins just thinking about it. I usually felt so frustrated and exhausted by Christmas Day, I barely enjoyed the celebration. I repeated this drill for many Christmas seasons, before I finally decided to step back and think about why I was trying to accomplish the impossible. I learned to take a deep breath and accept the fact that I can&#8217;t do it all-and I&#8217;m much better off if I don&#8217;t try.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s probably why I&#8217;m writing this. The tendency to revert to this frenzied pace by mid-December is still a challenge. I need to be reminded of the quiet simplicity of this season, so I can hear the age-old message once again.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son and will call him Immanuel.&#8221; Isaiah 7:14<\/p>\n<p>Immanuel! Our God is with us. If we can stop long enough to listen-we will hear the invitation that beckons us to come, to wait, to get ready for our coming King.<\/p>\n<p>No doubt, December will be as busy as ever with gifts to purchase, trees to decorate and carols to sing. But this Advent season, I pray that in the midst of everything contending for our time and attention, our hearts will be moved and our senses sharpened to rejoice in God&#8217;s greatest gift.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">________________________________________<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_49g3QkOvXTU\/SY3QR2IuuNI\/AAAAAAAAAPA\/4zYclob-TrQ\/S220\/debK_002.jpg\" onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 92px; height: 138px;\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_49g3QkOvXTU\/SY3QR2IuuNI\/AAAAAAAAAPA\/4zYclob-TrQ\/S220\/debK_002.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a> Deb Kalmbach is the co-author of Because I Said Forever: Embracing Hope in a Not-So-Perfect Marriage and the author of a book for children, Corey&#8217;s Dad Drinks Too Much. Deb and her husband, Randy, make their home in a tiny town in Eastern Washington. Visit Deb at her <a href=\"http:\/\/www.debkalmbach.com\/\">website<\/a> or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/www.deb-onestepfurther.blogspot.com\">blog<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">__________________________________<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogger.com\/%20http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_zNJSAho3bgU\/SyJ_VkIjEeI\/AAAAAAAAAPM\/a7af4j0ebYw\/s320\/256686_fpx.jpg\" onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 68px; height: 83px;\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_zNJSAho3bgU\/SyJ_VkIjEeI\/AAAAAAAAAPM\/a7af4j0ebYw\/s320\/256686_fpx.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center; font-weight: bold;\">A three strand pearl necklace will be given away on New Year&#8217;s Day. All you need to do to have a chance of winning is leave a comment here. Come back on New Year&#8217;s Day to see if you won!<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center; font-weight: bold;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: left;\">12 Pearls of Christmas Series and contest sponsored by Pearl Girls<span style=\"font-size:78%;\">\u00ae. <span style=\"font-size:100%;\">For more information, please visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pearlgirls.info\">www.pearlgirls.info<\/a><\/span> <\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>LISTENING FOR CHRISTMAS by Deb Kalmbach I used to be the queen of over-commitment, and December brought out the worst in this malady. It was as if I were poised at an imaginary starting line, and when I flipped the calendar page, I was off and running&#8211;the December dash! 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